Page 13 - Risala Sep.12 (Complete Fiels)

11 groom riding on a horse with great fanfare. It is essentially meaningless to ask him for his agreement. Dear friends! We make fun of this 'Ijab-o-qabool'. Allah told in the Qur'an: Do not make fun of my verses. Who are the people seeking the agreement? According to the Qur'an, when the girl and the boy agree, only then the Nikah is valid. But, according to our tradition, if an adult girl selects a boy and does Nikah without the permission of the guardian then the guardian has the right to declare that Nikah null-and-void. What happened to the right of choice and freewill of the boy and the girl? Obviously, it got transferred to the guardian! Talaaq Talaaq Talaaq End of the story In any case, the Nikah at least requires the agreement of two parties. But to break it, only one person has all the authority the husband. He says the word 'Talaaq' three times and the marriage is dissolved according to the Shariah. The wife can cry all she wants, but her right has been usurped. If someone were to ask: What kind of Nikah was that? You get the reply: Mr.! You know? - On earth, it is just a matter of playing it out because the Nikah is already decided in Heaven. This is the same issue of Taqdir which says: It is all written in the fate. Everyday our girls cry and sob but accept it by saying: Well! It only happened what was written in my fate. What can I do? The cry “written in my fate” does not let them realize that someone has usurped their right of freedom of choice; someone has forced them to such an extent that they cannot even talk about it; someone has strangled them so much that they cannot even dare to say: that we have some rights in this too?; that when you asked me my opinion at the time of making the union then you should also ask me my opinion at the time of breaking the union? Also, at the time of making the union not many people outside the invited guests know about it. But, at the time of breaking the union the whole world knows about it. The man giving the Talaaq loudly boasts in public and proclaims proudly that I have given the Talaaq. Let her cry so what? It is written in her fate. Everything is decided in Heaven. Nobody can say anything. The victim has no recourse. The final chance is her father's home. When she goes there the father does not let her enter the house. He says: My daughter! From this house when the palanquin has gone, dead body is the only thing that can come to this house. Sixth component of Iman Dear friends! What do we have here? There is no need to take one issue at a time. It is a question of fundamental human right, i.e., the freedom of choice and freewill,